The Secret To Becoming Who You Want To Be And Achieving Everything You Desire In Life

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought” – Buddha

Ever wondered how some people just get everything they wish for in their lives? The “lucky ones”, the onces who have “easy lives” because without effort and struggle they achieve everything.

You do not have to be smart in order to make your dreams come true, you do not need a degree and you for sure do not need any luck in life. There is one single tool you need in order to make you the person you always wanted to be and to give you everything in life you had always wished for.

And that tool is your mind and your thoughts.

1. Realize that there are no limits to your Dreams

Dream big, imagine even bigger! There is no limit and no rule which could control or prevent you from thinking about whatever you want to. Anything you want to dream about and think about is totally up to you.You can wish for everything, money, career, a house , a new car, a perfect partner, love, to live in paradise, anything. It is all up to you.

” Many people in Western culture are striving for success. They want the great home, they want their business to work, they want all these outer things. But what we found in our research is that having these outer things does not necessarily guarantee what we really want, which is happiness. So we go for these outer things thinking they’re going to bring us happiness , but it’s backward. You need to go for the inner joy, the inner peace, the inner vision first, and then all of the outer things appear.” – Marci Shimoff

2. Disturbing Factors

People tend to think and obsess about the negative things in life. They think about how bad they feel, what they do not have in life, which things they do not want in life, their disease, their poverty and so on. People complain not only to others, no they complain in their heads, tell themselves all the negative things over and over again. They fill up their minds with negative thoughts and energy. And that is exactly what will attract more negativity and will make all your fears come true. Because the ‘law of attraction’ (Rhonda Byrne) does always exist and will always send a reaction accordig to the energy you are sending out to the universe.

3. Replace the Disturbing Factors with Positive Thoughts

Once you are able to replace all those negative thoughts with only positive thoughts and dreams and wishes, your mind will start to attract exactly what you wished for and thought about. Once you believe what you think, even though this might be challanging in the begining, the universe will answer to your positive thoughts. You will attract exactly what you believe and wish for because the universe answers exactly with that what you are sending out to it. Start every day with a smile and with a happy thought and see how that tiny action will attract positive things during your day. Because the universe will give you back what you send out, because people sense your energy and will send that back to you. Be intentional.

“You become what you think about most.. But you also attract what you think about most.”- John Assaraf

4. Be Grateful

In this process it is important to always remind ourselves what we are grateful for -not what we miss in our lives (even though these definitely do exist). Once you bring into your mind on a daily bases what you are grateful for your mind automatically becomes positive. And a positive mind will attract positive actions of the universe. Wake up and be grateful for this new day, for your 2 feet which carry you around, be grateful for your eyes and ears, for people in your life, for food you have, for everything you can be grateful for.

5. Visualize your dreams and thoughts and turn them into Feelings

It is important to feel this positivity. In order to turn a thought into a feeling visualization is required. When the thought about your dream becomes visualized in front of you once you close your eyes, that will create a positive feeling, a feeling of happiness, joy, hope, love, etc. These positive feelings are not only another way of sending positive energy out to the universe, no they also are a way for us to control our thoughts. Because a human being has several thousand thoughts a day and controlling/making sure that every single one is a positive thought  is basically impossible. But if we use our feelings as a feedback mechanism to determine which thoughts are positive and which are not, we can control them in a way. Think more about things that give you those positive feelings, do more things that create happiness.

” Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” – Albert Einstein

6. Make yourself truly believe

Make sure it is not only a forced thought, even though it will feel like one in the beginning of your process. Not only believe whatever you wish for and dream about but also see yourself having that and being that person, believe it that much that you already experience the joy that it will give you.

7. Let the Universe do the rest

If you are able to have those positive thoughts and if you are sending out all this positive energy… it is done. It will happen. Everything is made out of energy, the universe, the planet, every species, the human, the organs, the cells, the organelles, the moelcules and the atoms. Everything is connected and everything is energy.

There is no way to tell how long it will take but it will work because the universe will react. And the best way is to try to accept that there is a reason for everything and in the end the result will be the reaction onf your thoughts.
Imagine driving the car at night, you do not see further then 200 hundred meters but you still dare to drive for hundreds of kilometers, because you trust the few hundred meters you see and are convinced that the next meters will be fine and you do not have to see more in order to drive in that direction.

“Remember that your thoughts are the primary cause of everything.”
― Rhonda Byrne

You are the author, you write your own story, so start changing things in your life by changing your mind. This is how it works for me and many other people who know how to be the person they want to be and who apply and control the energy they are sending out to the universe. And applying is something you just have to do, no one else will work for your happiness, you are the only one in charge of it.

The mind is such a strong tool and weapon, it can cause misery, disease and frustration when used the wrong way. If it is used the right way it can be magical or a wonder.

Think about what the  placebo effect does. Giving patients a pill with no effective component in it, can, only based on the believe a patient has in that pill have an effect on your health and disease. It is such a powerful tool.. learn to use it.

This post was triggered by a conversation with a friend, and inspired by the book “The secret” by Rhonda Byrne. For everyone who is interested in the the law of attraction and wants to change his or her life this might be the right book for inspiration- Because it it so easy to apply and holding on to it will give you anything you want in life Because our minds are the key to everything.



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